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The words we choose to use reflect our attitudes which then predict our behavior. For instance, when someone describes their pets as “spoiled”, this person is likely to reinforce unwanted behaviors and not reinforce desired behaviors. This person is likely to give their dog a biscuit for pestering them during a work call. But when their dog walks with slack in the leash, or sits when approached by a friendly stranger, no biscuit is given.
By comparison, if someone describes their pets as “well cared for”, this person is likely to reinforce desired behaviors, interrupt and redirect unwanted behaviors. This person has a strong bond, or reinforcement history, with their pet. These pets understand behavior expectations and are generally well-mannered.
The words we use set the tone for our behavior. Sometimes we use the same word in different tones to take on different meanings. Your dog's name is a great example of this. When you say your dog’s name in an upbeat tone, you’re likely to give your dog scritches and fawn all over your dog when she looks at you. Your dog associates her name with "Yay, good things!" When you say your dog’s name in a menacing tone, you’re likely to further scold your dog when she looks at you. This leads your dog to believe that her name means "No no, bad dog!"
Sure, dogs can differentiate the tones and their meanings. However, responding to her name becomes a gamble. Sometimes it means good things happen, and sometimes it means bad things happen. When this is the case, the odds are not in your favor when you say your dog’s name outside. Your dog is more likely to ignore you and stay engaged with the distraction.
We should use our dog’s name as we use our emergency recall word. We should save it for times when we can 100% reward name response with a game of tug or a stream of treats. If you need your dog’s attention in a casual scenario, use one of the many nicknames you’ve given your dog. Think of your dog’s real name as a contractual agreement where the dog is always rewarded for immediately responding to his name.
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